Confidence & Certainty

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I tend to underestimate the importance of this, but recent experiences reinforced just how important confidence & certainty are when communicating what you do.

A quick story.

Marian and I decided back a few months ago to put in a swimming pool. As I write this, we’re at that point of no return with a big hole in the back yard.

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This is the first time I’ve ever had a pool, and to be perfectly honest I viewed the whole project with a fair amount of trepidation.

Marian went out and found 4 pool companies to bid on the project. With varying degrees of enthusiasm they said that, Yes they could do a pool for us…the results would be fine…that they did a lot of pools…that they hoped that we wouldn’t run into unforeseen issues…blah, blah, blah.

What was lacking was any sort of enthusiastic confidence that Marian and I were going to be 100% delighted with the end product…that, Yes we may run into problems but I’ll get those solved so you’re 100% delighted…Yes you might want to put that particularly stone on the deck but if you do it this other way you’ll be 100% delighted…

And then we met Wendy.

First question out of her mouth...”I see all the other designs include a spa with the pool. Let me ask you a question, how much do you think you’re going to use it?”

Marian and I looked at each other and responded, “Well probably a lot for the first two weeks and then probably never.”

“So just why do you want to spend $15,000 on the spa?”, asked Wendy.

Total confidence and certainty.

“Look this is the way it’s going to go and

let me tell you precisely what the steps are.”

-Wendy,  Totally  Confident &  Certain Pool Contractor

We feel completely taken care of and 100% confident we’re going to be delighted with the end result.

Granted, there’s a fine line between confidence & certainty, and arrogance, and it’s important that we don’t cross it. But here’s the reality, and why I think many of us don’t always do as good a job as we could in this regard.

We don’t explain what we do as a series of very precise steps.

I’m in a coaching program with Frank Kern and we recently discussed this topic. One interesting point that came out of that discussion was the importance of  having a system that’s easily described and understood.

  • First we’re going to do this.
  • Then we’re going to do this
  • And then, this…

When you communicate your system then you naturally communicate with confidence and certainty.

Food for thought. Let me know what you think.

Mark

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