
On the surface, the concept of developing brand new relationships with clients doesn’t sound terribly difficult. It’s certainly not counter-intuitive by any means. I think we all “get” the idea that you build relationships first and then sell stuff later.
However, even the most savvy small business marketing consultant often falls victim to the trap of trying to sell far too early in the process. There’s an enormous temptation, once we learn that a prospect has a problem, for us to bring out our great big solution bat and just wack the poop out of the poor person. To hell with relationship building-let’s book some business! Unfortunately, it’s this lack of patience that kills marketing efforts that otherwise could be extremely successful.
So let’s think about the first step in the process-how do we get someone to pay attention to us? Let’s assume for the moment that this person whose attention you want is very busy, lots of responsibility and frankly, really isn’t all that interested in building a relationship with you. How do we go about getting that person to engage?
If you ask anyone who has spent any amount of time in the small business marketing consulting field, you’ll hear one consistent answer; appeal to their self-interest. At the very early stages-when you’re just trying to get someone’s attention, they’re really not interested in what you do.
What’s going to hook them is if you can communicate that you understand the types of problems they face. Lead with the problem-not your solution.
I know this probably isn’t the first time you’ve heard this but the reality is that most services providers are terribly wrapped up in how great their system/process/approach is. Even if we assume that your approach is in fact the absolute best one available , it makes no difference when you’re marketing your services to someone who doesn’t know you. The excellence of your system isn’t going to be known and appreciated until after you’ve been hired.
Thus when you lead with how great the service is, it just sounds like so much Blah, Blah, Blah to your listener. They’ve heard it all before. Everyone says their system or solution is great so you won’t stand out.
This isn’t to say that your solution isn’t important. Of course it is. At some point in the sales process your prospect is going to be very interested in learning about it. But, it’s not the hook that’s going to them to pay attention to you. I’d estimate that after working with owners of services businesses, consultants and advisors for over 20 years, 90% don’t get this and it’s one of the key reasons they struggle.
It’s showing that you understand the problem that’s going to hook their attention. And it’s for that very reason why free reports are still one of the most valuable weapons in your arsenal. The right report that focuses on that critical issue of pain, will get the people you want to do business with to pause and say, “OK tell me more.”





